Top 55 Jen Sincero Quotes

Our ‘realities‘ are make-believe – whatever we make ourselves believe, we experience.

Technology gets a bad rap for keeping us glued to our screens instead of being present with whomever is around us, and while this can be true, it also allows us to connect with billions of people all over the world. For free.

If you’re confident, then you don’t feel weird about showing your vulnerability and opening yourself up to learning from somebody else. Insecure people stay where they are because they’re afraid of admitting their weaknesses.

People love to tell you what you should and shouldn’t want, regardless of what you have to say about it.

If you want something badly enough, and decide that you will get it, you will.

Sometimes, if the people in your life really drag you down, you need to stop spending time with them.

If you’re serious about changing your life, you’ll find a way. If you’re not, you’ll find an excuse.

At times, I find a degree of inflexibility in the more traditional homosexual community that seems to me to be every bit as ‘straight‘ as straight.

I have more experience than I care to have on what it feels like to be broke, confused, and frustrated when it comes to money.

Safety is an illusion, and trying to protect ourselves does nothing more than protect us from experiencing a full, evolved, and juicy life.

My big journey was around money. I was a successful writer, I was a musician, but I was just always broke.

Wanting money has been made so taboo. We’re not allowed to talk about it or admit we want it, and yet we use it every single minute of our lives.

You must go after the things you desire like your life depends on it, because guess what? Your life does depend on it. The life you truly want to live does.

I was broke into my forties.

Even though most of us love, love, love it when we’re flush with cash, and we fantasize about what we’d do with more of it, we’d feel gross saying ‘I love money’ out loud.

We live in a fearful society that has perfected the art of doubting, weaned us on worry, and trained us to focus on everything that can or has gone wrong.

You have to get outside of your comfort zone if you’re going to make significant changes in your life, and since few things scare people like the unknown, feeling fear is an excellent sign that you’re on the right track.

When I meditate, I can feel an energy that is much bigger than me but is also part of me, and it’s a very powerful energy.

Maybe, if you put your disbelief aside, roll up your sleeves, take some risks, and totally go for it, you’ll wake up one day and realise you’re living the kind of life you used to be jealous of.

The good news about being full of crap is that once you’re willing to admit that you’re full of crap, you can de-crap yourself.

A sense of urgency is motivating.

When you understand that making, saving, and spending money is all based on the thoughts you’re thinking and the actions that these thoughts lead to, you can completely transform your reality – and your bank account.

I’ve read, like, 10,000 self-help books.

Bravely going out into the world and trying, yet still deep down believing you’re ruled by your past circumstances, is like forgiving someone but still hoping they sit in something wet.

Pick the one thing that you’ve really been putting off, that seems too big or too scary or too whatever, and do it this week. You might be very pleasantly surprised.

I’ve been broke and sad, rich and sad, broke and happy, rich and happy, and I’ll take the rich version over the broke version all day long.

I find that in my own life and with the people I’ve been coaching, when people make the decision to get rich, they’re available to do things that are outside of their comfort zones and stretch themselves.

It actually is a lot easier to get rich than one would think.

For me, I feel like God is intuition and an inner knowing. I think it’s difficult to be successful without that because that’s where you have to come from if you’re really going to knock it out of the park. For me, it’s more a sort of a universal energy.

Gratitude is one of the strongest and most transformative states of being. It shifts your perspective from lack to abundance and allows you to focus on the good in your life, which in turn pulls more goodness into your reality.

Perfectionism and procrastination have such a fine line. You say, ‘Well, I want it to be good. I want it to be perfect.’ But what you’re really doing is not doing your work. You’re putting off showing up and being visible because then you’re going to be judged, and it might suck.

This is part of what makes me, ahem, an excellent houseguest: I’m game. I’m flexible. I’ll make you feel okay about eating an entire chocolate cake in one sitting because I’m right there by your side with my own fork.

If you want to be a powerful woman, you need money. It gives you options and freedom so you don’t have to think about money all the time.

Write down everything you feel about money – ‘I love you;’ ‘I wish I had more of you;’ ‘I don’t trust you;’ – Then, look at the ones that aren’t quite so pretty and figure out how you can shift them to be in a more positive, grateful space.

I do recall one moment when I went to India by myself. I was paralyzed with fear to travel alone, but I had this intuitive hint that I had to do it. It was transformative and beautiful.

If you hang out with a bunch of sad sacks who think the world sucks and there’s no possibility, you’ll start to believe that. But if you hang out with people who think everything is possible and actually do the impossible on a regular basis, you will believe that, and you will be able to achieve that.

I’m in trouble with some activist women because I refuse to say I’m bisexual.

If your entire relationship with money is devoid of fun, money becomes something you fear and loathe rather than something to celebrate and enjoy.

I have a theory that people tell you everything you need to know the first week you meet them. And often even on the first date.

When my plans to become a world-famous rockstar didn’t pan out, I decided to try being a lesbian instead, didn’t pull that off either, and wrote my second book, the national bestseller, ‘The Straight Girl‘s Guide To Sleeping With Chicks.’

If you’re taking a risk and you are not scared in some way, you’re doing something wrong.

Yes, there will be challenges, and things will blow up in your face, but learning experiences are different from wasting your life pushing a boulder up a hill.

We humans can get used to anything. It really is remarkable. The problem is that we often use this glorious ability of ours to stay stuck in mediocrity. Oh, the years we waste adapting to lousy marriages, soul-sucking jobs, being friends with people who are rude to waitresses.

Make an effort to do the things that you enjoy instead of being lazy about it. Life is worth the hassle.

If you are a human being in modern society on planet Earth, you need money to do pretty much everything, especially to grow into a more expansive version of yourself.

When we push against who we naturally are, we feel stress, things don’t progress easily, we beat ourselves up for getting crappy results, and everything is an effort.

Scare yourself every day, and do something that makes you feel totally excited and totally terrified.

We often don’t value what comes naturally to us because we think that everyone must have those abilities.

Acknowledging that there’s something you desire, not going after it, and deciding that, ‘You know what, it’s fine; I’ll just focus on what I do have, make myself a ham sandwich, and call it a day,’ isn’t happiness. It’s denial.

The key to growth is acknowledging your fear of the unknown and jumping in anyway.

So many people subconsciously shy away from getting rich because they believe they’ll be judged, they’ll lose the people they love, they believe that desiring money is a bad thing, money is the root of all evil, etc.

Nobody gets to the top without failing.

Talk to strangers. They’re never who you think they are at first.

People who truly love their lives are the most inspiring people of all.

Being cool was always very important to me, but I decided to get rich, so I went for it.